Youve asked opinions on a situation whereby if your elderly mother has an incident whether to notify your sisters.
My answer is- it depends on a number of things.
- Her age
- The nature of the incident
- The medical result
Bearing in mind the above and how easy it is to notify people nowadays by message I’d suggest yes, you should have told them. This is particularly important in a fragile or toxic relationship.
However, you sister is now playing the sulking sister and is not negotiable on communication. Nearing that In mind I would word a message like this.-
hi (names), I’m messaging you to. apologise for not informing you of mums latest fall. Initially as she was ok eg no serious injury) that it didn’t warrant it. I realise I was in error. I’m not perfect and don’t mind criticism however I do not think closing the door on communication allows for negotiation and it harms our family unit.
I will notify you all by text every time mum has an incident.
I hope This clarifies the situation.
Thats how I would handle it. I hope that helps