Thanks for your post. It has taken a while for your post to be replied and this can happen as the forums get busy.
You have written and intersting post.
I think some people do worry when they hear about people saying something behind their back.
I know I tend to over think and sometimes worry what others think of me. If you were not expecting to hear what some one said about you it may have surprised you.
If you cnstantly worrying about others it would make working difficult for you. is there another worker you trust who could maybe able to help you.
Feel free to post when you like.