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Topic: Tired

  1. Sophie_M
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    4 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself
    Hi Truetomyself,
    We are sorry to hear that things are still quite difficult for you today. It sounds like you are absolutely exhausted with everything and are struggling to find a lot of good in your life.
     
    Is there someone you can call tonight to talk to? Maybe someone you can share your thoughts with and get some of this off your chest.
     
    We are reaching out to you privately to see how we can support you further.
     
    We also strongly urge that in overwhelming moments you get in touch with our friends at Lifeline (13 11 14) or the Suicide Call Back Service (1300 659 467).
     
  2. Petal22
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    4 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi Truetomyself,

    Im sorry you are feeling this way, I understand it’s difficult for you. Please hang in there….

    Things will get better Truetomyself, is there a doctor you can see even if it’s just some one to talk to……..

    Are you on new medication?

    Try to google a meditation on your phone and try to listen to it…..

    Please call one of our caring councillors on 1300 22 4636…. It helps to talk to someone my friend….

  3. Truetomyself
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    5 October 2021 in reply to Petal22
    I feel like I can't be like everyone else. I struggle to hold down a job. Everyone my age has houses, children and have their lives set. I am feeling left behind and not a bright future. I am scared I will not be able to get a job.
  4. Petal22
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    5 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi Truetomyself,

    Thank you for opening up to me…

    I know that sometimes we look at other people and think they are further along in their lives than ours but some times this isn’t the case….

    Truetomyself I highly recommend that you find a therapy you can do for your agrophobia I believe their is one out there for you….. you can learn so many helpful strategies in these therapies and it will help you to move forward in your life…….

    You are so much stronger than you know and you have a beautiful fulfilling life ahead of you if you believe it’s obtainable it will be…..

    Imagine how you want your future to be and then manifest it…… it really is possible just take a leap of faith! I promise you, you won’t look back…..

    Believe you can get a job and then go out there and get one……. It will be good for you to get a job because it will give you a purpose….😊

    What type of job are you interested in doing?

  5. Truetomyself
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    6 October 2021 in reply to Petal22
    My anxiety is really high. My mum yelled at me and called me a sloth with no faith or hope. I can't do it with her yelling at me.
  6. Petal22
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    6 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi Truetomyself,

    Im sorry that your mum yelled at you that must be difficult.

    Im sorry that she called you what she did…..

    You do have HOPE and FAITH Truetomyself…… just believe in yourself and feed your mind with your own positive thoughts……

    Truetomyself have you thought about what job you would like to apply for?

    You CAN improve and you CAN get better..

  7. Sophie_M
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    6 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself
    Hey Truetomyself, 

    Thanks for reaching out tonight on the forums. We're sorry to hear how anxious you're feeling at the moment. We can imagine those names were really hurtful to hear and are sorry you're going through this. If you'd like some strategies on trying to destress, we'd recommend you check out the articles below: If you feel that it would be beneficial to you to talk through your feelings with a counsellor, please, contact the Beyond Blue Support Service anytime on 1300 22 4636 or get in touch with us on Webchat 3pm-12am AEST here: www.beyondblue.org.au/getsupport

    Please feel free to keep chatting with us here. If you'd like to share more about what happened today, we're here to listen. 
     
  8. Truetomyself
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    9 October 2021 in reply to Petal22
    How do I get better when nobody cares?I have no friends and my parents don't even acknowledge me that or I exist. Or they yell at me. I can't do it alone anymore.
  9. Petal22
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    9 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi Truetomyself,

    Im sorry you are feeling this way I understand it’s difficult….

    I care about you and so do other people in this community …. You also care about you….

    You can get better… believe in yourself…. Can you speak to a gp about the way you are feeling?

  10. Truetomyself
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    10 October 2021 in reply to Petal22
    It's hard to believe in yourself when no one cares and you don't care about yourself. I am so tired and worn out. I have no one. I stay in bed some days due to my depression and no one cares. I have no want to be here.
  11. Petal22
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    10 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi Truetomyself,

    Please keep up the fight ❤️

    There’s a great life out there waiting for you…… please listen to your heart beating feel the breath in your lungs….. that’s purpose! You are supposed to be here!

    Say to yourself “ I’m strong and I can get through this” please care about you, give yourself that chance that chance that’s it’s possible for your life to get better! Move in that direction seek out ways to make it better……..

    Have you found a therapy for you? I really believe it will help you…

  12. Truetomyself
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    12 October 2021 in reply to Petal22
    I am tired and struggling today. I have no strength and it is hard.
  13. Petal22
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    13 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi Truetomyself,

    How are you feeling today?

    Im sorry things have felt hard for you, please call Beyond Blue and speak to one of our friendly councillors… talking can really help phone 1300 22 4636

    You are stronger than you know keep pushing forward ❤️

  14. Truetomyself
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    13 October 2021 in reply to Petal22
    I am not good my mum yelled at me again. I can't help it how I am. I have been crying. I don't feel so good.
  15. Sophie_M
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    13 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself
    Hi  Truetomyself.

    Sorry to hear that you are struggling today, the community will be here to listen and chat with you. You can also reach out to Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636 or Lifeline 13 11 14 if you need some further support.
  16. Petal22
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    13 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi Truetomyself,

    Im so sorry your mum yelled at you I understand you can’t help the way you are.

    Please call Beyond Blue and speak to a councillor as Sophie s previous post I think it will help you to talk to someone.

    Please call 000 if you feel you need to , an ambulance can take you to the hospital.

    Please keep reaching out to our community on this thread.

    Thinking of you

  17. Truetomyself
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    18 October 2021 in reply to Petal22
    I spent today in bed again. I am crying because I don't know what will happen to me. I am so ashamed of myself that I can't do simple things like get out of bed and get dressed. I hate being me. I hate dealing with myself.
  18. Petal22
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    18 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    I’m sorry you are feeling this way Truetomyself.

    In what way do you worry what will happen to you?

    Please tell yourself positive things about yourself.

    Things will get better, please tell yourself that.

    Please call one of our caring Beyond Blue councillors 1300 22 4636 it helps to talk… ❤️

  19. smallwolf
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    18 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi. I have read much of your story and how much things are a struggle for you. Tell me a little about yourself. What things you like, etc.

    The people here care of about you also.

  20. Truetomyself
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    18 October 2021 in reply to smallwolf
    That's the thing I am lost. I don't know what I like anymore. I feel lost. I feel just like I am a disappointment and a burden.
  21. Petal22
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    19 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi Truetomyself,

    I just wanted to check in with you and ask how you are feeling today?

    I understand it’s so difficult to feel lost…… I remember when I was in the thick of it it was very difficult.

    Have you been able to see a gp ?

    Hang in there after every storm in life a rainbow will appear.

    You have a great purpose ….. can you make one positive choice today and move forward with that……… ❤️

  22. Truetomyself
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    19 October 2021 in reply to Petal22

    Hi Petal

    I am feeling tired. I am tapering meds and just want to curl into a ball and rest. Thank you for asking.

  23. Petal22
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    19 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    That’s ok 😊

    I hope you are feeling better soon 🙏

  24. smallwolf
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    19 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    hello.

    tapering medication can be difficult. maybe you could tell me what you do in a typical day?

  25. Truetomyself
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    20 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself
    How do I do this when I can't even do simple things like shower and dress? I am tired of it. I hate being me and dealing with all of this.
  26. Sophie_M
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    20 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself
    Hey Truetomyself,

    Thanks for reaching out this afternoon, 

    We can hear life is really difficult for you at the moment and it sounds as though it takes a lot of effort and motivation to do things that might not have previously. We know it must be really exhausting for you, but please know that you are coping! and coming here on the forums is a good way to express yourself and get some advice moving forward. 

    Please know that Beyond Blue Support Service is always available if you'd like to talk things through. Our Support Service can be reached on 1300 22 4636 or get in touch with us on Webchat 3pm-12am AEST here: www.beyondblue.org.au/getsupport

     
  27. Petal22
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    20 October 2021 in reply to Sophie_M

    Hi Truetomyself,

    Im sorry you are feeling this way but as Sophie’s post has said you are coping which is great….

    You’re going to be ok just breathe. Breathe and remind yourself of all the times you felt this scared . All the times you felt this anxious and overwhelmed. All the times you felt this level of pain, and remind yourself how each time, you made it through. Life has thrown so much at you, and despite how difficult things have been, you’ve survived. Breathe and trust you can survive this too. Trust that this struggling is part of the process, and trust that as long as you don’t give up and keep pushing forward, no matter how hopeless things may seem, you will make it.

    #the pathfinder

    If you haven’t already Truetomyself please use the contacts Sophie has given you.

  28. Truetomyself
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    23 October 2021 in reply to Petal22
    I don't feel like I am coping. I have no one to talk to. I feel alone and it's hard doing this myself. I am tired of fighting. I feel useless and struggle to have a shower and get dressed.
  29. smallwolf
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    23 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself
    Hi. Popping in to say to hello and ask what you did this Saturday?
  30. Petal22
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    24 October 2021 in reply to Truetomyself

    Hi Truetomyself,

    Im really sorry you are feeling this way I understand it would be difficult for you.

    I understand how tiring it would be.

    How would you feel about seeing a gp so you can discuss how you are feeling?

    Is there any health professionals that you would feel comfortable seeing?

    You aren’t alone, we are here as a community to support you..

    Hang in there

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