Do you feel as though you are spirituality repressed as you put it? Even though I might have faith I certainly do not believe for one minute you are to blame for anything. I have also been on the receiving end of some religious folk.
Your brother while not knowing what to do perhaps only needs to be able to listen and learn from your story? That is, assuming he is able to listen to you.
I can also listen to you tell your story and respond. This is a safe and non judgmental space.
If you don't want to share much if your story now perhaps you could tell me of some things you like? Or anything else. I would just like to know a little more about you. Is that ok?