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Topic: Loss my husband to brain cancer

4 posts, 0 answered
  1. MyMicka
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    11 August 2019
    I am 43 years old and 3 weeks ago tomorrow I lost my 43 year old husband to brain cancer. He was first diagnosed 12 1/2 years ago. The past 6 months was awlful then at 1:20 on the morning of the 22/07 he took his last breath. I feel completely heart broken. Sometimes I feel I just can’t breath. I am lost and have no idea what I’m suppose to do now.
  2. Soberlicious96
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    11 August 2019 in reply to MyMicka

    Dear MyMicka,

    I am so sorry for your loss. It is so heartbreaking losing a loved one. Even when you know they're sick, and even in you 'know' it's coming ........ the reality of it actually happening is still so awful and such a heavy burdern.

    I lost my Mum from Bowel cancer about 7 and a half years ago now, but I still miss her often. There are days when I just want to call her and tell her about my day or my week.

    I know that it feels at times like things will never get any better, and given that this is still so fresh for you, that's not surprising. But three weeks isn't very long. This is a time to be very very gentle with yourself and just take things minute by minute. I would like to also suggest that perhaps you might consider getting some grief counselling if you do feel as though you are really not coping?

    In the meantime, just remember that it takes some time to adjust to life without a loved one. And remember too that you are welcome here for as long, and as much support as you need. The BB forums are 'open' 24/7. And of course, there's lifeline; 131114.

    Take care. I'll be thinking of you. xo

  3. Fairybear
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    1 posts
    11 August 2019 in reply to MyMicka
    I am so sorry that you lost your husband. There are never enough words to ease your pain. I guess the only thing. I can say is hold on, you will find your way out of the darkness and the sun will shine again.
  4. Towngirl
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    1 posts
    9 October 2019 in reply to Fairybear
    My husband passed away in May of 2018. While I still feel immense grief it is getting more manageable. My son and I move forward with our grief.

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