Hi Baby girl 2010,
I'm sorry to hear that you've been going through this. From reading your post you have shown so much inner strength to have to explain to your daughter alone about the divorce. I think that's a great step that your daughter is in counselling.
I think that it's important to have open dialogue and check in to see how your daughter is feeling. From my experience, it can be difficult at times for children to express how they feel. Doing nice things together and spending quality time might be an idea as well. Is there something that you and your daughter enjoy doing together?
Here for you!