I am a 23 year old man with no experience in the dating game. I want to outline some things which I feel are making me worry that time is running out.
-I am currently unemployed but studying Business at uni, I feel the reason I am holding back is because I would prefer to be employed before I start finding someone. To me, if I meet a woman and she asks what I do for a living, saying what I am currently doing is a massive turn-off.
-I am on the heavy side but am working on improving my physical health. The problem is, it is a long road to go, but I refuse to quit.
- Dating sites are terrible to start conversations. You can have the best funny pick-up lines in the world but the response is "hahaha"
This post may look very "incel"-like, but I am certain I am not one. I know that I am the chosen one to fix all of my issues and it is all up to me to fix them. Sadly, I feel that there is a cut off time for dating, "if you are still single by the time you are 25, buy some Phillippino mail order bride you miserable tool."
Is there any clear indication to know that you are making progress to get yourself noticed by the ladies or do you just go with cheapest option?