Rest up dear dl23! No I had a pretty sh** day actually. Considered a course of action to prevent contact with my children by exs family now. They turned up to the chns workplace and all my chn were triggered pretty badly.
All in all, it's raining now. I hope evil things upon them lol.
BUT The very BEST revenge is living my best life!
SO here I am with the best of them. 😁
Dear dl23, this exW of yours is a nasty piece of work. She really is. I don't think you are, that's why it's so hard for you to see this or even believe this. I have some choice words to describe what she's doing but I shall restrain myself.
KNOW she's doing everything she can to POKE you.
They KNOW the chinks in our armour. She KNOWS how much all of this would be hurting you. Hoping to bring you to your knees and concede to her demands.
Never ever ever do this.
Your precious was your family, home and car and pool lol etc.
IDK but hers is... money? Controlling you and all the money you earn? IDK, that's what I see.
If THIS is so, then can you IMAGINE how furious she is that YOU have sought the LEGAL PATH?
Ahem the RIGHT path?
You attempting to get this done right. Fair. Equitable. Transparent. Kids too!
She was steamrollering you! She HAS NOT CARED you are sleeping on a freaking lounge with a bad back and for months.
She's freaking because she's lost control over you.
Turning this knowledge into your OWN power is the magic you can do and ARE doing.
Yes it's sad, it's freaking horrible! But don't you dare let her bring you to breaking point.
No I didn't mean anything else but the known debts 50/50... SHE DIDN'T WANT THESE.
Heck no one does but aha she's realising she is going to cop it.
And that's enough for her to be furious and react in the way she's doing.
She wanted the house sold and shazzam - she'd be outta there. Leaving ALL debts to you.
Taking control over whether you see the kids and when - what a worse nightmare!
This is NOT an ideal situation but I think none are... Mr Paul and I are living testimony to other mine fields.
This timing BENEFITS you. Use it. To sleep for one lol. Keep focussed. Let it also be a lived education for you.
We will screen your dates later lol! Like all my friends say to me "You're too nice ecomama"... I'm not now lol!
Sorry I was scrubbing all the crap off me from today and napping instead of freaking out.