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Topic: need advice- after divorce

3 posts, 0 answered
  1. mimo123
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    2 posts
    24 October 2021

    I got divorced in feb 2021. during the process i did not kept any contact with my ex. me any my family have blocked her contatc details

    after 6 months my parents receive a message from my ex writing how ashamed they should be and karma will hit you back...

    same msg was sent to me from diffrent no. also few days back one of my close friend received a msg from my ex. this has caused me nd my family stress/ breach of privicy and emotional depression.

    has enyone gone through similar sitiuation where in even after full and final divorce granted by court, you did receive messages from ex, where in you have no energy left to handel her and contact her....how did you handel the situation.


  2. geoff
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    25 October 2021 in reply to mimo123

    Hello Mimo, and welcome to the site.

    After any final divorce then you'd expect that everyone would go their separate ways, and not make any discriminating comments because the court has decided and nothing can be changed, so it must be upsetting to receive this.

    I would be considering an AVO order on her so that no communication what so ever is sent to you and if your parents and friend need to do the same that's what I would suggest.


  3. mimo123
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    2 posts
    25 October 2021 in reply to geoff
    thank you geoff

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