firstly thanks for replying to all replies, it is appreciated and doesn’t happen all the time.
A true account- 40yo in 1997, suicide attempt one week prior to me leaving my then wife of 11 years- a narcissist. Two kids then 7 and 4yo.
Drove to a caravan sales yard purchased their cheapest caravan $1190 for a 11 footer.
Paid caravan park rental for a plot then $65 a week maybe $150 now. Kids slept on lowered dining table and loved it - like camping to them. That gave me time to reconsider my future and not have to buy furniture.
After 4 months made a deal with the ex - she got the house and mortgage,I got the garage!
I bought a block of land in the country. Got security work nearby. Relocated my garage. Got land valued and bank considered garage roof area as building collateral. Finally had approval for a kithome. Built kithome by myself while working shift work. Twelve month later moved in.
Sounds easy? I made it and it was hard work but tenacity works.
Consider a cheap caravan. Move out, continue being a dad, let her go, enjoy the journey of self discovery, set goals, work hard.
Dads in distress is a good organisation to get in touch with.
As for being transgender in men’s company there is still many men that are set in their dinosauric ways but most like me don’t give a damn. Be positive and proud of who you are.
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you are still a jigsaw piece