I need some advice and help. So the last 1.5 years have been a rollercoaster for my family, I'll give a quick over view.
I have had 3 operations due to my health, on a slow road to recovery now thanks goodness.
My grandpa was diagnosed with brain cancer and has now passed on, but in his 9month battle he was neglected and abused by his wife. My dad, his brother and myself had to give up out jobs and life to help him and make him comfortable in his battle.
My dad had a bad car accident on his 27hr drive to my grandfather's and has still not made 100% recovery.
My brother tried to commit suicide and is on the road to recovery.
My step mum has walked out on my dad while he was on a memorial trip for my grandpa with his brother. Doesnt have any answer to what's happened, she wont talk to him.
My dad suffers anxiety and depression, and the last week has not been good. He has lost a lot of weight, cant sleep or think/cant shut his brain off, not hungry, mentally not well either. I love my dad so much, we have a very strong relationship and I dont know how else to help. I have been going to his house every day, I have been cooking and taking him food, trying to get him to walk the dogs with me to get some fresh air, I have been listening/just being there and giving lots of love but he is getting worst. I have tried to get him into counseling or even talk to a friend but he keeps telling me all to much for him atm.
I'm really lost on what more I can do or how i can help him, if anyone has any advice please help me help my dad.
Thank you x