My 26yr old is same story but no drugs or work. He admits to anxiety but refuses to get help.
l know how heart wrenching it is as this has been going on over 5 yrs. we too have suicidal tendencies when he drinks too much.
l am seeking help about this very thing because its getting too me too much.
l hope both of us find a solution however l have To look after me as the age is so so difficult. Far beyond, no pun intented, me actually being capable of helping in any way except as you do as well, let him know he is loved.
Mostly he is a good egg but as said stubborn. Just will not talk about feelings let alone do anything to help self.