Hello SadieLou, and a warm welcome to the forums.
The old saying 'time heals all wounds' maybe true for other situations, but with mental illness is a difficult answer, for me, it's no.
Don't get me wrong because people do feel so much better and on top of the world, but a relapse is possible, however, those concerned could go through years feeling so good.
As you are going through a property settlement is it possible to have some time off work, I know that money is a concern, but do you have any sickies left or perhaps have a brother who can handle this for you.
I say this because how you react to your partner is not your fault, it's just that you aren't feeling well or think clearly.
I hope I haven't upset you because that was never my intention.